There are some important factors to keep in mind when considering adult sex. Of course, you want to be sure of the adult gender of the other person. Still, you also need to look for a specialty that fits your needs, consider compatibility and communication between the two of you, and consider cultural fit to gain a deeper understanding of their life experiences.
This is how Jasmine, a licensed clinical psychologist and sex performer, has become a highly sought-after psychotherapist among sex workers. She has been producing and starring in her adult sex productions for over a decade and has been a therapist in her practice, Blue Pearl Therapy, for even longer. She is also a fetish educator and co-owner of an adult sex studio with her partner.
Her life experiences provide a safe space for sex workers to seek mental health support and help them navigate life as adult sex workers without the fear of being shamed by people who do not know the adult industry. Live Adult Sex Advice from Your Favorite Therapist
An expert on boundaries and life as an adult sex performer came to Adult Sex wearing her therapist hat to answer questions from users and provide live on-camera advice on adult sex. She also emphasized being vulnerable, naming her feelings about some technical issues, and setting clear boundaries about the role she plays in life and what users can expect from adult sex to reflect the healthy coping mechanisms she recommends. I learned a lot! Here are some questions from the live adult sex advice session and what I learned from it.
My answer is yes, size matters. I say so because how we express ourselves with our unique bodies, our unique temperaments, and our unique personalities matters. If you’re curious about whether other people care if someone’s penis is big, adult, or small (and I’m assuming without a doubt that this person is a penis owner), then here’s the thing. Some people do care. People prefer some penetration. Some people like clitoral stimulation. Some people prefer a certain size of adult penis in their mouth, in their ass, or in their hands. These things matter. Desire matters in many ways. Regardless of the size of your penis, how you use it is important. This is not just for penis holders, but for any gender, women may ask you about the size of your breasts, or they may ask you about your body presentation. They want to know if they are suitable for sex, right. They want to know if the vaginal walls and elasticity are important, if the labia are important, if the vagina is big enough or small, if the lips are thick or not. These are things that matter to people. It’s about what people are attracted to. Some things just feel physically compatible. Certain kinds of sexual disorders can occur in vagina owners. An adult might feel more comfortable having sex with someone who has a smaller penis, or whose fingers can move in a certain way. You know? So that plays a role. I think it’s dismissive in a way to suggest that people don’t have sexual preferences when it comes to body types, or that natural, delicious compatibility could exist.
