Are you getting ready for a romantic date and want to end the night with a sensual body massage? Are you looking to revive your sex life that has lost its spark or want to try something new? Whatever the reason, an erotic body massage for couples is a fun and sexy way to spark passion and connection and take your night in a hot direction. The first step? Learn how to do it right. Here are some sensual body massage tips to ensure your partner won’t soon forget your night.
Create the right atmosphere!
Best tip? Don’t start a body massage without preparing the room. Start by cleaning, tidying up, and avoiding distractions from roommates and cell phones Keep an eye on the temperature: too cold and your muscles won’t be able to relax, too hot and your massage can turn into a stress test or sauna session. The ideal temperature for a relaxation room is around 25°C. Relaxing music, soft lighting, scented candles, and a glass of Prosecute create a gentle, sensual atmosphere.
Have some on hand?
Maybe some leftover tanning oil from your last vacation could be the solution. Or maybe coconut oil works wonders for the skin and feels so good. Pay attention to the temperature of your hands. Cold hands on bare skin are not a pleasant feeling. Warm them up by rubbing them with the same oil you use for the body massage.
Stay calm!
That your partner is looking forward to a relaxing body massage Perhaps everything else (winks) will follow, but don’t rush into making it sexy. Focus on relaxing your partner and letting what happens happen, like in the outer course, a practice that involves sensual moments without penetration. Start the usual way on the back, warming up the body with caresses along the contours of the body, then increasing the pressure and relaxing the muscles. You can also start on the back but don’t neglect other parts of the body. Pay attention to erogenous zones (neck, thighs, abdomen, legs, etc.). Gradually rub around the genitals, but avoid touching them too soon. Buttocks? Not everyone likes having this part of the body rubbed. Ask gently or stroke gently and observe for positive or negative/unpleasant reactions. If they don’t like it, move on to other areas.
Start using your mouth
When things start to heat up, your mouth can be a valuable ally. You can even kiss, lick, and nibble on your partner’s body if you know that’s what they like.
Remember that this is a relaxing body massage.
You don’t have to act like a professional massage therapist. Your job is not to massage your partner’s body or find tension points. If you don’t know exactly what you’re doing, you may cause more harm than good and have the opposite effect of relaxation. Enjoy the moment and let your partner surrender to you.
A good body massage is all about being in the moment. Focus on her body and her sensations, and let her completely fall into your hands. You’ll never know how much pleasure this sensual attitude can bring.
If you hear snoring..
The body massage worked! But don’t worry, you still gave them great joy, demonstrated their skills, and gave them the energy to give back.
