Here’s an idea: Forget everything you thought you knew about sexual love. Forget outdated notions of ruthless upstarts and tragically unequal power relationships. An unexpected twist is in store. Sexual love is the secret relationship superpower you never knew you needed. Buckle up. Who knows, this article might just blow your mind and give you an idea of what your next relationship could be like, one that fosters a whole new understanding of personal growth, shared dreams, and compatibility.
Remember the ’90s movie “”? And are intrepid meteorologists who track and study tornadoes as they pass through the landscape. Cattle bellow and swirl through the sky, a classic scene, while houses are torn apart one by one and tractors rain down. Their enthusiasm and chemistry is palpable. The hunt is on. While it’s certainly not as terrifying or dangerous as a flying cattle bullet, the essence of what it means to hunt the big one is at the heart of sexual love. It means finding someone willing to pursue their dreams. And not just any old dream, but one that makes your heart pound and your soul sing, as Twister visibly delights Helen Hunt.
Let’s grow, darling!
Our modern version isn’t about catching a trophy spouse. You should end that right now. It’s about building a deep connection with someone who encourages you to grow and thrive while subtly challenging you. In short, he’s watching you. Love is a journey of personal growth, where your partner becomes your inspiration and mirror, pushing you to be your best self. Imagine being in a dynamic relationship where you frequently encourage each other to read new books, explore unusual ideas, and have uplifting conversations. This is sexual love. Of course, you can feel free to splurge on luxury cars and designer wardrobes but remember that sexual love is just as important as mutual growth and creates a life that is much more fulfilling than the sum of its parts.
It’s a journey
Whether you’re building a startup, planting a community garden, or traveling the world, the journey is infinitely more epic if you have a partner who shares your vision. We often forget to pay attention to the real joy of the journey while we’re trying to achieve our goals. Sexual love is both. It includes both. It takes us to incredible destinations, but the journey is so much more fun because, let’s be honest, the road to something special is more rewarding with a loving cheerleader by your side.
For some, sexual love has meant a “marriage beyond our means” focused on social status and wealth. But sexual love brings a huge improvement to the ecosystem that sustains modern relationships. Someone who inspires you to reach for the stars, but also keeps you grounded and proves they’re there for you in important ways as you pursue your most audacious goals. It’s about finding and keeping the ultimate partner who’s willing to share life’s adventures with you, not just rainy-day Netflix marathons.
