Fantasies can be touchy subjects, especially in the case of sexual love when you have a long-term partner who may not be as sexually inclined as you. Sometimes, if he is not as sexually experienced or mature in sexual love, your requests to try out less common things can be perceived as an attack or something that may be “weird” or “unusual” to him. This tends to be a common theme when women ask their partner (most of the time, they are trying to be brave because they don’t want their partner to think they are cheating on them) to have a threesome that involves another man joining her. And her male partner, female sexual love. This idea also plays into penetrative sex, which consists of a woman being penetrated both vaginally and anal at the same time. But how do you fulfill this fantasy when your partner doesn’t want to invite another man into the room? There are many things you can do to replace the extra human (even if it won’t be the actual fantasy, this solution is much better than nothing). By substituting another person for a few different positions and games, you can have more fun for yourself and your partner. So, here are some steps you can take and/or do to get closer to fulfilling this fantasy without another man intruding on your partner’s masculine territory. First of all, you need to communicate with your partner about your sexual love. This can be a difficult conversation, depending on who you choose to sleep with. If you have had problems in the past with openness and communication, it might be best to ask yourself if this is the right person for sexual love (do you want to be with someone who doesn’t even listen to you?). However, if you are with someone open to listening to communication, the first option would be to sit down and express it to them. What is your fantasy? It is very important in this conversation that you enjoy yourself sexually because it is not about the emotional involvement of another man in the equation but rather about the physical aspect. That she is more than enough and that it has always been just a fantasy. Reassuring your partner that he is more than enough and that he gives you all the pleasure you need will hopefully help you decide to consider sending another man into the room. Also, if he is not very happy with the idea and says he is not interested in doing it, he should not walk away with a bitter taste in his mouth, feeling that it is not good enough. In the case of the second option, you can call him here.
