Sure, a proper body massage can guide you through this process. No matter how good your body massage is, you can feel supported. But there is a limit to what we can do, and the atmosphere (and amount of champagne you bring to a date can easily get in the way.
We only have a limited amount of energy we can spend on each customer. If you make the encounter hard work because you don’t know what you want or you don’t make an effort to be friendly and helpful, your employee may lose enthusiasm. Then the session will feel awkward and you will not be well served.
About what you need
A successful booking starts with knowing yourself. Contact a sex worker or massage provider. A date with a sex worker is not just about having sex. There are many reasons why we get sexy: sex, touching, attention, talking, trying new fantasies, and even fetishes. When looking for the right massage, make sure you tell them what kind of activities you are hoping for. That way, they won’t have to guess when you’ll meet.
This communication also includes being honest with employees about your experience. If this is your first time and you’re unsure, they must know so they can guide you through the process. Similarly, if you’re very nervous, you should let your masseuse know and ask for reassurance that everything will be okay.
Put effort into how you present yourself.
Your presentation will affect how well a sex worker treats you. A good sex professional won’t judge you for that. It’s about showing that you view your encounter as special and that you’re doing your best.
This means taking care of your hygiene and dressing the way you would if you were going on a regular date. Clip your nails, shave, and make sure you look and smell like someone worth approaching. After all, this is the person you’re going to be intimate with! If you don’t smell or feel good, it will be very difficult for an employee to provide you with enthusiastic service. And lastly… this may be obvious, but looking good also means being sober. It’s ok to have a drink to calm your nerves, but being drunk is a no-no. Being nervous can put you in dangerous situations where you can’t communicate your needs. If you’re looking to go to the extreme, it can even affect your ability to get an erection.
Put effort into the bedroom, too.
A good date doesn’t just mean choosing a professional body massage and just sitting back and letting it do its magical effects. Body massage is also important.
I have met clients who just lie there and wait to be pampered during the “body massage”. That was not much fun. It is not just the body masseuse’s job to make sure everything is done If you are looking for a mutually pleasurable experience (one where the body masseuse is excited to be intimate with you), Starfish Body Massage is not recommended.
A good way to give a body massage is to ask your colleague, “How do you want to be touched?” Follow his instructions and show that you care about his pleasure too. If you want to take turns pleasing each other, a fun thing to do is try the Two-Minute Game. For bonus points, learn how to ask your employee, “How does that make you feel?