We get it. They want to have erotic sex in bed. They want their women to moan in bed, beg for more, and keep telling all their girlfriends what an erotic sex fucker they are.
But if you’re looking for advice on erotic sex, you read something and think, “This is exactly what I need!” try it in bed, and you’ll feel like a champion… except your partner isn’t enjoying it as much as you are. Let’s take a look at some erotic sex tips that you should really stop doing and what to do instead.
Furious
This is something that we women and some men often have to endure. Regarding foreplay, it’s not always straightforward what to do. What works for some doesn’t work for others, so you must experiment?
But the standard man behavior is to thrust your finger in and out as much as possible, hoping for a reaction, like pressing a broken elevator button. Most of the time, this doesn’t work, so don’t do it.
Erotic Sex: Inserting your finger as fast as you can won’t give you an instant orgasm. Rather, it will only make us uncomfortable and leave us unsatisfied later… that’s not what you want!
I really shouldn’t say that now
But our erotic sex is not a glove. We don’t want to carry our hands, and if you’re going to try fisting, let’s have a good discussion first instead of forcing it in. For some reason, many people believe that more fingers are better, but in reality, more fingers will prevent you from penetrating deeper and giving proper attention to the G-spot.
Rather than inserting your whole arm into erotic sex and pushing in again and again, it’s best to insert slowly using one or two fingers. Use your fingers to find the G-spot and say, “Come here,” and have gentle erotic sex there. This will get you screaming faster than trying to turn into Kermit the Frog.
Spitting or blowing? Fine
This is what happens in erotic sex movies – the woman isn’t wet enough, so the man spits on her to make her orgasm. He either spits on his hand and rubs it or aims it at her erotic sex and squirts saliva there. Sometimes the guy even gives her a blowjob because that turns her on. If you think you can spit on your partner during erotic sex to make her wet, don’t do it. Don’t be lazy. What should you do if she’s not moist enough? Instead of thinking, “I want to have sex with her, I want to have sex with her now,” think, “I want her to feel good, too,” and work towards that.
Don’t neglect foreplay. Foreplay is an integral part of erotic sex. While you might be ready when you feel the first signs of a naked woman, we ladies take a little longer to get there. A slow, sensual massage is a great way to relax us, and oral sex can bring us to orgasm before getting down to business.
