Others consider him to be just one of many men I dominate. Still, others consider him to be either voluntarily or involuntarily submissive to me, depending on their perception. This post aims to clear up some misconceptions about who my pet is and our relationship. Firstly, I only have one pet. I get a lot of requests, but the pet I can only have once in my life requires a lot of training. It may change in the future, but for now, it’s just me and him. But who are my pets? My pets are my friends my partner confidants. My toys My roommates my lovers
But what I don’t have as pets are my husbands or boyfriends (I have no intention of getting married and I hate socially enforced relationship titles like “boyfriend” and “girlfriend”). My pets are my equals. I don’t treat them like dirt and I don’t submit to them. The part of our sex life shown and shared in my adult toy video is the part that best represents how we like to play.
I like to be dominant in the bedroom. It’s a very good understanding that works well for both of us. For us, adult toys are just one aspect of the dynamic life we lead. However, that doesn’t mean it affects every aspect of our relationship…
But I like gentle domination that usually, but not always, stay in the bedroom. For others who use sex toys, the decision of how far to use them is up to the people involved. Still, it’s just one element of our sex life.
Sometimes I reject him. Sometimes I tease him and reject him. Sometimes we make love. Sometimes we just fuck. Sometimes I let him give me pleasure. Sometimes I make him wear a chastity device. Sometimes I like to give him a nice, provocative hand job. Sometimes I give him ruined orgasms (this happens a lot). Regardless of what we do, I would say that sex toys are the overriding paradigm that governs many of our sexual interactions.
That doesn’t mean sticking to the sex toy manual and following its instructions and recommendations. How one practices or experiences sex toys is entirely different for each person. What we do is unique to us and there is no right or wrong. Other than that, I’d say we’re a pretty normal couple.
Some may think that what I do is way beyond their ability to find someone like me who does the same thing, or that they realize they can be dominant within themselves. But I want you to know that it is completely accessible. If we’re talking in the context of a consensual relationship, it all comes down to communicating and being open and willing to explore things. (Or pay a fee.) But that’s it.
To sum up, my pet is simply a man with whom I share my life. We like to play with sex toys. We want to share this sex toy that’s part of our sex life with other people. And “Pet” is just the affectionate name I gave him as we played under the tent in the adult toy circus. I hope you enjoy it there too
