Finding strength and protection is a daily challenge for me as I navigate the stigmatized world of female escorts. This led me to turn to the ancient wisdom of the feminine deity and female escort archetype, which has to do with what lies in the shadows: the unknown and unseen and the cyclical nature of life, death, and rebirth. She embodies many qualities typically associated with women but with a more intense and sometimes frightening tone. Sex and Hine Nui Te Poi are dark archetypes that represent the strength, resilience, and transformation needed to survive in the female escorts industry. Their stories speak to me and make me feel like I am not alone in my journey as a female escorts I have discovered a more profound sense of agency, self-acceptance, and spiritual resilience by embracing their wisdom.
A name many of you will surely recognize: Sex is a personality
It goes against patriarchal norms and expectations. I can’t pinpoint the exact moment in my life when I became aware of female escorts and its history. He was always present in my life, lurking in the shadows, waiting for me to accept his teachings. Many imagined Sex as demonic. He became a warning example to women that those who do not submit will be rejected and demonized. In the patriarchal interpretation of this character, Sex is portrayed as an evil whore whose sexuality is so insane that she destroys marriages wherever she goes. She is accused of seducing innocent, unsuspecting men in their sleep and flaunting her sexuality in a predatory manner. The female companionship of Sex reflects how I perceived female companionship.
Female escorts are often blamed
Being female escorts is a convenient narrative that absolves men of responsibility for infidelity. I have seen various married men in my career as a female companion. They have often confided in me that they have been meeting with me behind their wives’ backs. And in many cases, these clients have projected their guilt onto me and accused me of sexually alluring them. It is interesting how much power these clients give me by denying their role in the affair. Am I an irresistible seductress capable of seducing even the most faithful husbands? Am I a powerful succubus that married women should fear? It’s not the husband’s fault; he’s just an innocent victim of temptation! I’m just the evil whore who destroyed your marriage, right?
Actually, I’m not that powerful. If I weren’t
It would be different. I’m not a succubus. I’m just a woman with a clear “desire for sex” as a man. And as with Lilith, it’s much easier to portray a woman as a seductive seductress than to hold a man responsible for his sexual desires. Of course, our patriarchal society believes the narrative that male sexual desire is innocent and female sexual desire is vicious.
